I've known for a few days but now its official. Mette is pregnant again and I am to be a father for the third time. With my own father still in a coma, the timing is almost unbelivable. I can't decided if I'm up or down, happy or sad. We didn't plan to have any more children, and we've literally been caught by surprise.
The bottom line though, is life throws all kinds of things at you and you have to cope. As surprising as an unexpected baby is, its not a bad thing... just difficult.